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Live & Let Live

I'm not sure why I'm always compelled to write & post during the summer, maybe it's the warmth that sets in... Plus, I guess I just have something to say. Yesterday was the last day of lupus awareness month, & I just wanted to first say thank you. To any & everyone who watched Butterfly Beauty, read facts, took the time to research what lupus is, purchased or donated anything, shared a post, had a conversation with me, or acknowledged/supported Monarch Masterpieces & myself as a whole in any way, shape, or form: I am so very thankful to you. I ignored insecurity & hesitation last month by going out on a limb to bring life to new ideas. As...

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Butterfly Beauty Ep. 2: Latasha Jeter

It was such a joy to reconnect with my friend Ms. Latasha (@_tashaaaj) to discuss her lupus story, our wins & loses, whether she prefers hot temperatures or cold ones 😂 & much more. This autoimmune life can get pretty hard, confusing, & lonely, but discussions like these provide so much support & education. Thank you for tuning in! I hope you enjoyed. See you next May 💜🦋 https://youtu.be/57RyDXUsyYE

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Butterfly Beauty Ep. 1: Karen Villanueva

Oh, to be a butterfly. Ms. Karen V, ( @missvillanueva_ ) a beloved friend from college & I, took some time to reconnect & discuss our lupus stories, exchange advice, laugh, & most importantly, share education around this unpredictable chronic disease. The conversation couldn’t have been more authentic & necessary during this Lupus Awareness Month. Enjoy, & stay tuned for next week's discussion!

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Malia’s Birthday

July... the time of cancers & leos, rubies, larkspurs, red, white, & blue things, many African independence days, grilled food, the endless need for cool air, cold treats, & bathing suits, comets, firecrackers, & sparklers  battles between lifting every voice to sing & something called “pledging allegiance” (whatever that means) July 2020... all of the above coupled with cosmic chaos in a full moon & lunar eclipse, the longing for outside interaction & stimulation, yet the wanting-needing, to combat rampant disease, black vs white, inequity & inequality at the same. damn. time, financial turmoil, brutalization, fear of fear itself... not to fucking mention, it’s hotta than a witch’s titty everywhere.   hear me out though.   in Texas, cacti are...

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Juneteenth 2020

I want to start off by saying thank you. Thank you God for the breath I entered this day & being with. Thank you to my family, my immediate examples of unconditional love. Thanks to my extended family, my estranged family, my descendants, ancestors, my friends that are family; to you for reading this. I couldn't begin anything without expressing gratitude first. These days haven't been easy. My mind hasn't had the most linear thoughts. We've gone from one extreme to the next in a matter of three months. Seeing death, life, more death, the fight for life. But, today, I longed to feel enriched, connected, & plugged into the incredible source of strength that I sometimes forget I am...

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